Wedding planning checklist

Your Step-by-Step Wedding Planning Checklist

118 tasks across eight stages, from your first decisions to post-wedding follow-up. The first 28 tasks are published right on this page, each with a short description.

  • Tasks organized by planning stage
  • Step-by-step instructions for each task
  • 60 thematic checklists included
Wedding checklist
Anna & Michael · 118 tasks
In progress
Initial Stage68%
6–12 Months Before the Wedding24%
+ 6 more stages in the app
118

tasks in the ready-made plan, from setting the date to post-wedding follow-up

8

planning stages, from first decisions to the wedding day and after

60

thematic checklists for individual decisions

Why it helps

What Is a Wedding Planning Checklist?

A wedding planning checklist is a structured guide with 118 tasks across eight stages: initial stage, 6–12 months out, 3–6 months out, 1–2 months out, final week, day before the wedding, wedding day, and after — so nothing gets forgotten.

Instead of a generic to-do list, Wedding Planner — No Stress adapts tasks to your wedding format and size, tracks progress by stage, and includes detailed instructions for first-time planners.

How it works

How to Use the Wedding Planning Checklist

Step 1

Set your wedding format

Tell the app about your celebration — civil ceremony, restaurant reception, countryside wedding, or intimate event.

Step 2

Work through each stage

Follow tasks across eight stages — from initial decisions through the day before the wedding, wedding day, and after.

Step 3

Track your progress

Mark tasks complete, add your own, and watch your preparation move forward without stress.

Task list

Step-by-step wedding planning

Below are the first two stages in full: 28 tasks with a short note on each. How to actually get one done is spelled out in the app.

Stage 1

Where to start wedding planning

Initial Stage · 13 tasks

  1. 1

    Define your wedding vision and priorities

    Take time to discuss what kind of wedding you truly want. Identify what matters most to both of you.

  2. 2

    Discuss your ideal wedding size and guest list

    Start outlining who you want to invite. This will help guide your venue and budget decisions.

  3. 3

    Set an initial budget and talk about financial contributions

    Determine how much you're comfortable spending. Discuss who will contribute and how expenses will be split.

  4. 4

    Choose a few potential wedding dates

    Pick a few preferred dates before reaching out to venues. Be flexible in case your first choice isn’t available.

  5. 5

    Decide on the overall format (civil, religious, symbolic, destination)

    Choose the type of ceremony that suits your relationship and legal needs. Think about both meaning and logistics.

  6. 6

    Research venues and ceremony options

    Explore potential ceremony and reception venues. Look into availability, pricing, and capacity.

  7. 7

    Explore wedding styles and inspiration

    Gather ideas to define your wedding’s look and feel. Focus on what reflects your personalities as a couple.

  8. 8

    Consider hiring a wedding planner or coordinator

    Decide if you want professional help with planning or managing the wedding day. It can greatly reduce stress.

  9. 9

    Create a shared task list and timeline

    Stay organized with a shared wedding checklist and timeline. It helps keep everyone on the same page.

  10. 10

    Discuss cultural, religious, or family traditions to include

    Talk about customs or rituals that are meaningful to you or your families. Decide what to incorporate.

  11. 11

    Think about whether you want pre- or post-wedding events

    Consider having a welcome dinner, brunch, rehearsal, or afterparty. It adds depth to the celebration.

  12. 12

    Talk about legal requirements (if applicable)

    Check what paperwork is needed to make your marriage legally valid. Requirements vary by location.

  13. 13

    Start gathering inspiration (Pinterest, blogs, moodboards)

    Collect visual ideas that reflect your style. It will help guide decisions and communicate with vendors.

Stage 2

6–12 Months Before the Wedding

15 tasks

  1. 1

    Book your ceremony and reception venues

    Secure your wedding venue(s) early to lock in your desired date. Check what's included in the rental.

  2. 2

    Finalize the guest list

    Create a confirmed list of guests you want to invite. This will help with logistics and budgeting.

  3. 3

    Send 'Save the Dates'

    Let guests know your wedding date in advance, especially if they’ll be traveling. Keep it simple and informative.

  4. 4

    Book key vendors: photographer, videographer, planner, caterer, DJ/band

    Secure your top-priority vendors early. High-demand professionals book up fast.

  5. 5

    Choose your wedding party (bridesmaids, groomsmen, etc.)

    Select the people who will stand with you on your big day. Let them know early.

  6. 6

    Begin shopping for wedding attire

    Start exploring dresses, suits, or outfits that match your style and venue. Allow time for alterations.

  7. 7

    Research accommodation options for out-of-town guests

    Help guests by recommending places to stay near your venue. Reserve blocks if needed.

  8. 8

    Plan your honeymoon (or mini-moon)

    Start researching where you’d like to travel after the wedding. Book early for better options.

  9. 9

    Set up a wedding website with essential info

    Create a simple site to keep guests informed. Include dates, locations, accommodation, and FAQs.

  10. 10

    Research and book hair/makeup artists

    Find professionals who match your style and are available on your wedding day. Schedule a trial if possible.

  11. 11

    Book officiant or confirm your ceremony leader

    Choose someone to perform your ceremony. Make sure they’re legally authorized if required.

  12. 12

    Decide on catering format (sit-down dinner, buffet, etc.)

    Choose the type of food service that suits your guest count and atmosphere. Consider budget and flow.

  13. 13

    Consider ceremony structure and write early drafts of vows or speeches

    Plan the flow of the ceremony and begin writing your vows or speeches. Make it personal and heartfelt.

  14. 14

    Start thinking about décor, floral design, and rentals

    Begin visualizing how your venue will look. Create moodboards and collect vendor quotes.

  15. 15

    Begin researching or creating your gift registry

    Select gifts you'd like to receive and make it easy for guests to access. Add variety and price points.

Six more stages — in the app

From 3–6 months out through post-wedding follow-up — 90 more tasks with step-by-step guidance for each. The site publishes the first two stages only; the remaining six open in the app — free for 7 days, then on subscription.

Open the full plan in the app

What you get

What changes once the plan is written

Three reasons to run wedding prep from a list instead of notes on your phone.

Nothing to keep in your head

118 tasks are already sorted into eight stages. Open the plan and you see what to do now and what can safely wait.

No guessing how to do a task

Every item has a short description and step-by-step guidance. For specific decisions there are 60 thematic checklists — examples are listed below on this page.

Always know where you stand

Stage progress sits on the home screen. The list adapts to your wedding format and size: drop what does not apply, add what does.

Thematic checklists

60 lists for specific decisions

When a plan task like "book the venue" or "choose a photographer" comes up, you can open a focused list with the questions and steps. A few from the app — real titles; the items open there.

  • Venue & logistics

    How to choose the perfect wedding venue

  • Venue & logistics

    Key questions to ask your venue manager

  • Venue & logistics

    Weather contingency plan

  • Vendor management

    Photographer and videographer selection

  • Vendor management

    Questions to ask your wedding MC

  • Wedding day

    Wedding day timeline

  • Early planning

    Wedding budget and vendor selection

  • Pre-wedding events

    Bridal shower ideas and planning

52 more — in the app

Wedding Planning Checklist FAQ

Can I adapt the checklist to my wedding?

Yes. Mark tasks complete, remove what you do not need, and add your own items — the plan adapts to your format.

Are there tips for each task?

Yes. Each task includes a short description and recommendations — especially helpful if this is your first wedding.

What are thematic checklists?

Sixty extra lists for specific decisions — choosing a venue, picking a photographer, a bridal shower, or a rain plan. A few examples appear above on this page; the items open in the app.

How can I see my planning progress?

The home screen shows progress for your current stage — for example, six months before the wedding: how many tasks are done and how many are left.

Does it work for a small or intimate wedding?

Yes. The plan adjusts to your format and scale — only relevant tasks stay on your list.

Can my partner work on the checklist with me?

Yes. With shared access, you both see and edit the same checklist.

Where should I start wedding planning?

The first stage is published right on this page — 13 tasks: set the date, set a budget, choose the format and style, and draft your guest list.

Are there tasks after the wedding?

Yes. The plan includes a post-wedding stage — thank-you notes, paperwork, and other final to-dos.

Your wedding plan is ready

Open the checklist in Wedding Planner — No Stress. All 118 tasks are already sorted by stage; you just work down the list at your own pace.